WOMEN ASK: Where does the family stand in order of priority? Is it right for a man to neglect his family on the excuse that he is busy with church activities?

The Bible is clear on this. God first, your family next and then the church or ministry! Paul advised Timothy that whoever desires the office of a Bishop (or any office in the church) must first learn to take care of his household. In 1Timothy 5:8, Paul also said, “But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever”.

Note that provision here is not limited to financial provision, but actually refers to the spiritual, emotional and physical needs of the family. It is wrong for a man or woman to use their commitments in the church as an excuse to neglect the spouse and family. However, when you find yourself on the receiving end of this kind of situation, first pray, telling God about it, and of course speak to your spouse and let him know how you feel and how his neglect of the family is affecting you. I believe God will grant him wisdom